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I’ve just gotten word from a mom whose baby is breech at 39 weeks and the doc has told her that she absolutely CAN NOT do skin to skin in the OR- and neither can her husband. So this mother has been informed that her baby will be removed from her presence and her husband can choose to stay with her or he can go with the baby. Either way, one family member will be left alone…
As I learn more about pre- and perinatal psychology, it’s maddening to consider the easy, kind, human ways we could change scheduled, non-emergent cesareans that would support the physical and psychological health of the family. Of course, I am NOT advocating for scheduled sections for anything other than absolute necessity- a medical condition in the baby that might make labor more dangerous for him/her (these situations do exist), complete placenta previa, and several other conditions. And the gentle cesarean is not without its critics- and I do understand the concerns.
However, we’re left with the reality that 1/3 of our first time moms are being surgically delivered. When a cesarean is about to happen, what can be done to preserve the psychological health of the baby & mama? Acknowledging the family’s right to determine any non-surgical factors that do not impact the course of surgey seems a no-brainer. Mom feeling some control over her birth, lowers the chances of PTSD and other postpartum mood disorders. And many of the ‘gentle’ things mom might choose increases the likelihood that mom and baby will have successful bonding and breastfeeding after the fact.
So, what ‘might’ a gentle cesarean look like? Here are a few things that could be considered:
For the Family
Arrange postpartum support- a postpartum doula who visits mom and helps with baby care during the day after dad returns to work is an excellent idea.
While a cesarean is occasionally necessary, there are ways we can make surgical deliveries more gentle and beautiful for the family involved. There are ways we can recognize that this sacred time- when a family is growing- should be recognized for the life event it is. Some practical considerations and efforts to involve the family in their baby’s birth can help the family begin life together- beautifully.
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